Happy Birthday, Momma...........

લોકો કહે છે કે હું તારા જેવી દેખાઉ છું. પરંતુ સામ્યતા માત્ર દેખાવ પુરતી છે, વ્યક્તિત્વની દ્રષ્ટિએ, હું તારા જેવી બિલકુલ નથી. હું તારા જેટલી જવાબદાર નથી. હું તારા જેટલી દયાળુ નથી. હું તારા જેવી કંપોઝ નથી. તારા જેવી મહેનતુ ,સીધી કે સરળ તો નહીં. મને બુદ્ધિ મળી હશે પણ હું તારા જેવી હોશિયાર નથી. મને શોખ વારસામાં મળ્યાં હશે પણ મારા પાસે તારા જેવો ક્લાસ નથી. મારામાં બોલવાની કુશળતા હોઈ શકે છે પણ મમ્મી, તારા જેવા વિચારની પ્રક્રિયા મને મળી નથી. 79 વરસે પણ તારી નવું જાણવા ની ધગશ, 17 વરસ ના યુવાન જેવી છે. તારા કરતા ઘણી અલગ છું મમ્મી ; તું હમેશાં વસાવડા અને વૈષ્ણવ કુટુંબની તમામે જવાબદારી ઉપાડવા આ ઉમરે પણ હસતા મોઢેથી તૈયાર જયારે હું *This is my boundary do not cross it" માં માન નાર . અને બસ એક અફસોસ એ છે કે હું કાશ તારા જેવી હોત Maa. જન્મદિવસની શુભેચ્છા સ્વસ્થ અને ફિટ રહે

Let us celebrate their lives. Two females two journey One nation

It took me 10 years to restart my blog  . When I am back with bang on my blog, I am wondering what made me  stop doing this??🤔🤔. Yes, it was indeed incredible decade with motherhood responsibilities and balancing between professional & personal obligations. And for sure I will not use a word career as I might have learnt many things on professional front but nothing I have achieved to call it great career . One of the regret for not taking right decision at right time 😅 but today here I am going to share life journey of two dynamic females who have kept all their regrets, grievances , sorrows on side and moving ahead with positive energies.

I have not met both of them personally & may never meet them in this life journey . One I know her through Twitter account & another..... I know about her through television . Neither of them are so called celebrities or politicians . They are simple women but still inspiring me day & night . 

"Writer of thoughts , mother of hero " is her Twitter profile .  Meghna Girish is brave mother of Major Akshay Girish who made supreme sacrifice while protecting our country during Nagrota Attack in November 2016.  Mother Meghna has different way to coping with her grief. She must have been shattered but not broken . She relishes her martyr son's memories by working towards families of other unsung heroes . She has not only learned to live with her grief but also has healing power to heal others who sail in the same boat.   Major Akshay Girish Memorial Trust has been founded by Meghna ma'am & her other family members. Aim of the trust is to promote nationalism & service to mother India. 

Meghna ma'am is like her son brave , strong and fearless. Since last 2 years I am following my sunshine Akka on Twitter and she always amaze me with her positive tweets which reflect her strength . Who I am to wish you on woman's day? ... I can only request you Meghna Akka  to inspire me more & more towards rendering selfless services to the nation. 

February 18th 2019,  tv images are still very strong   in nation's mind .Nitika Dhoundiyal had paid a highly emotional tribute to her husband while moved everyone witnessing it to tears. "Jay Hind , Jay Hind , Jay Hind  I love you Vibhu " and she , young wife of Martyr Major Vibhuti Shankar Dhoundiyal gave final bid to a  hero.  Nitika  with proud said " I am not helpless . My husband was a brave heart " . The young couple got  married in April 2018 & parted in February 2019. ( Major Vibhuti gave supreme sacrifice while neutralizing coward Jaish-e-Mohammad terrorists in Pulwama)  Her courageous roar haunted me till few more months .She inspired me to my core. My class room  creative board was  full with her and  major vibhuti's  articles for another 3 months . 

Every day , I used to search her name on Google by hoping to know about her more and more  . Somewhere in October 19, I came across her Twitter account - proud wife of Martyr Major VS Dhoundiyal . Nitika Kaul Dhoundiyal as her Twitter bio says and I got lucky to interact with this lioness  also. 

BTech   MBA  Nitika is soon leaving her job of  multi national company &   joining Indian army to give true tribute to her beloved husband. Heroic female another profile bio is presenting how strong & challenging personality  she is . " Don't wait for the end to come in order to start new sometimes we just need to break the monotony and start new beginning from the middle of the story. " 

These both females far away from me, through their day to day endeavour inspire me more and more to work towards  nation and   motivates me to give selfless love . One who is like  my elder sister    & one who is only few years elder to my child are truly empowered women . And this women's day toast to their names & strong  characters .